As we enter Marches Gibbous Moon on the 9th, it’s time to review how things are going and refine the process if things aren’t quite right before building momentum into your desires coming up to the full moon on the 14th.
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Drop anything not yours or worthy of your time and energy. Release the unnecessary and you’ll both find space opens up in your mind and lives for each other to enter peacefully, easily and without the trigger into overwhelm - the most important thing is to bump up the twin flame stuff to a top priority - but not at the expense of feeling good, and wellbeing / health!!!
If you’ve been avoiding or hiding from your twin flame, and can’t understand why you feel unable to do anything, your nervous system is in overwhelm and can’t handle anything “new” to your system so you maybe clinging to old familiar patterns still which is why connecting with your twin flame in the physical feels so hard - it’s because you need to drop other things in your life to create space.
If you feel pressured by the demands and dictations of others, now is the time to exert healthy boundaries and learn to say no! By saying no to others, you are saying yes to yourself. You need breathing space at this time to re-align your energy and to regulate your emotions and nervous system.
There is a sense of for some you are on the verge of an emotional breakdown because you are not taking care of your emotional wellbeing which includes allowing love in to your life - you are starving yourself of the love you need, (from your twin and others!) and too in the head trying to get things done.
Don’t try to do it all at once, pick one thing to deal with, or release and do what’s needed - time to adult! If you are being demanded of, tell that person no - you don’t have to explain or justify yourself.
If you need to lighten your workload ask someone to help you do certain tasks so you can focus on the things only you can do.
If you aren’t giving yourself fun time, intuitively check in with yourself and carve out time to play!
If you need to spend more time with friends, do it! Go for a coffee, hang out, and connect! Even if only for an hour, it doesn’t have to be more than feels good to you!
If you’re in a toxic environment, workplace, and don’t like your job, start applying for new ones, or start that business you want to pursue. (Only leave asap if you can afford to do so and you have a buffer!)
If you are still in a karmic relationship, its now time to put you emotional wellbeing first (well it was always the time …) and physical safety if there is abuse. If you are in danger please seek professional advice and help because leaving can be the most dangerous time to leave, so try to do so in the safest way possible.
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If you are with a karmic I would suggest prioritising dealing with this because everything else will likely fall away as a result of leaving, and if you stay everything else you try to do for yourself will be impacted by their behaviour on you - whether covert or overt, it eats away at you. I also suggest if you feel safe to do so, to reach out to your twin flame for love and support at this time, if you need to. They may help you out by giving you a place to be, and whilst I would generally recommend taking time out to be single after an abusive relationship, depending on where you are at in yourself, you maybe ready to connect with your twin flame to have a relationship, everyone is different. Especially if you have known for a long time you do want to be with them - but take time out for yourself when you need it to re-adjust and process things, and be open and emotionally honest with yourself and your twin so you can work through things as you go.
I feel a lot of sadness, misery, and burnout here, and a feeling “I will never be with my twin flame if I keep doing the same stuff over and over” there’s a strong vibe of “I can’t do this anymore - I am not the person I once was, or thought I was” and a sense of stepping back out of that false self and old life - everything suddenly changes, and you may find you just walk away from ALL of it (a huge fuck it moment) and straight to your twin flame to tell them everything.
The twin whose on the other side of this, may find that things in their own life have shifted to create space for their twins to enter, both of their own choosing, or because life has re-arranged things to happen that way as we stop trying to control everything out of fear!
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Divine Feminine: The World
One cycle of your life is ending, a successful completion of a phase that now enables you to get out into the world and be seen in the next stage of your union process. There may have been travel involved to see your Twin Flame recently or coming up - if a situation occurs to see them, do so! The connection is asking you to both come together now to be seen as a Twin Flame pair. An improvement in life circumstances may make it easier to connect with your Twin Flame now, even if they live a world away.
Divine Masculine: 7 Swords (r)
Hmmm…this feels like a karmic partner situation has or is maybe soon to blow up, for those in separation but have a “third party” involved blocking union. This feels quite volatile, and there maybe an argument and being “caught out” by a karmic partner to do with the Twin Flame situation that you cannot back out of or deny. Disloyalty to yourself shows up by choosing a karmic, and they are often fear based connections we try to cram into a story of “love” in denial of the truth.
Whether we are trying to protect ego, or fear retribution, it seems for the masculine (and the masculine aspect of DF’s) both sides may have been or be about to be exposed in their connection by a karmic, perhaps even publically, or at least in a way that may lose (false) friendships and supporters that were built from the shaky foundations of a karmic connection. This may also lead into losing homes, jobs, and other things you have built together.
You may also discover that your Karmic has actually been unfaithful and lying themselves and although you knew this either consciously or had fears / suspicions they are likely well founded and this may come out too. Whether the lies and infidelity on the karmic side gives you cause to leave, the fact you are aware of your own actions leading you to this moment, will give you greater empowerment to do the right thing and leave the karmic. It will be a great relief and whilst you will grieve not so much what was lost with the karmic, but what you could’ve had with your twin had you chosen from love, from the start.
The energy between you both: Knight of coins
Physically you may both feel blocked from union because of more material circumstances like physical health, being in a physical relationship with a karmic, money issues, etc - none of these are real reasons in themselves, more like fear based “excuses” the ego clings to. With this awareness you can flip the energy and take the next step towards Union by making a choice and taking right action towards your Twin Flame (on both sides) - and suggests a physical meet up is needed / in order to start taking practical steps into union and building a real love based life together.
Over all I would say the positivity of the feminine side and influence of the world o resides the lesser cards energies, so tap into that “building your own world with your twin flame” energy to help get you out of the blocks you perceive and help shift your mindset to a more positive framing of things.
So whatever happens - and this energy can be over the next few days or weeks either side of valentines, if you feel this resonated and comes to pass please let me know, I love to hear feedback and if you found this helpful!
Peace, love & all that jazz
Bex
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So really the key here is acceptance of what IS, to allow what is true to show itself. To stop fighting.
However with the reversed Death card it indicated subconscious unaware resistance so on the surface you maybe doing all the thing towards union but feeling blocked and stagnant seeing no changes, not realising that this is why. Time to dig deep into this, and look at the what is causing this block - going inward intuitively.
So as I stated the karmic partner abuse is underpinning my fear of stepping into another relationship. It was physical, sexual, mental and emotional. It really messed me up. But I crave affection and love, and 15 years of single life focusing on healing and learning about the Twin Flame path has lead me to this point in my process.
To rectify things, the card I pulled was The Lovers. Making a choice from the heart that the head can accept, choosing love and the Twin Flame over fear, and the Karmic. Emotionally by letting that fear hold me back it is like I am still with the karmic and he has control over me. Unintentionally choosing the karmic, but now by intentionally choosing the Twin Flame, we can let that go and move into LOVE, into UNION with ourselves and our Twin Flame.
“Love requires surrender and surrender requires choice”
S U R R E N D E R T O L O V E
Anyhoo - this is me saying “I surrender to love, I choose LOVE. I CHOOSE YOU my Twin Flame and I choose you because I choose ME, NOW and FOREVER - and definitely over and instead of the karmic partner who I release fully now.”
Spangalactic Blessings
Bex
One of the biggest blocks to Union is being attached to what was (or what we think was) - mulling over or trying to fix in our minds what we think went wrong, or mistakes we made.
The basis of the law of attraction is: what you focus on is what you experience / manifest - ie reality is based on what we observe. This is also shown in science in quantum physics
“Quantum entanglement is a bizarre, counterintuitive phenomenon that explains how two subatomic particles can be intimately linked to each other even if separated by billions of light-years of space.”
( quote from www.space.com)
When we resist what we don’t want, we energetically push against it there for putting our attention on it, focusing on it, giving it energy and thus creating / attracting / manifesting more of the same. So when we constantly mull over the past we are reliving what we don’t want. Sometimes it is needed to go over old stuff to recognise our mistakes, learn our lessons, create solutions or take what worked to build on it, but again that is about focusing on the positives and what is wanted to create more of what is wanted. When we are on the right path - ie in alignment with our inner desires and needs then we are focused on them, giving attention to what we truly desire to the point it becomes our dominant vibration (energy state) to then manifest it into physical being. Feelings and thoughts the more they are given attention become reality. being present means being open to what IS, not resisting past, present or future, and allowing ourselves to be open to the opportunities presented, taking inspired action (rather than forced action driven by fears created by what we think we should do or have been taught we *have* to do) based on our own desires and intuition.
So if your Twin Flame is married and you constantly focus on that fact, instead of the things in your life that bring you joy asides your TF, then you will keep experiencing what you don’t want. Put the focus as much as you can on the reality of the connection, the love, the joy, the possibilities you desire, and what FEELS right and good. Pushing against these things and not believing we are good enough, handing our happiness over to our Twins making them responsible for our feels will never work.
Most of us have experienced the intense trauma of (negative) karmic relationships, some so bad it has left us with disabilities, PTSD, chronic illness and more - things I will address in future posts. To be with our Twin Flames, we need to let go of the things that drove us into those types of dynamics, deprogramming distorted thinking, and (re)learning to love ourselves, through self care, and aligned thinking to our true feelings.
How do we become more present - well, FUN is a good start! Re-connecting to your inner-child and healing those wounds by giving yourself the fun stuff you need to heal and thus connect with your Twin Flame! Of course we need our basic needs met too - but fun is part of this to keep us aligned, to help us relax and play also helps us to *adult* better too. Approaching life with a more child like curiosity and playfulness can help us open up to all the good stuff meant for us. What’s fun for you may not be someone one’s idea of fun, and it will never be something that (intentionally) harms another. It will come from a place of pure unbridled joy and self expression. It could be something sporty, or arty, music, acting, and it will also likely enable the adult side of you to utilise your skills and talents too. Playing games enriches the mind and soul, engages the body and gives us what we need to connect with others. Sharing or body doubling during these activities will create bonds and friendships and also be a way to connect with out Twin Flame.
More adult focuses can be engaged and mixed up, so if you want to be sexual with your TF bringing in a playful element will make it more fun and enjoyable, whether that’s in the lead up to it or the act itself.
If you struggle with any mental health issues, please find a good therapist that can help you work through your issues, find people you can share and talk with, a support group, as well as your own self directed healing work.
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I have gone through many years of intense karmic cycles, truths, healing and growth to come back more open and more accepting of the messiness of being human and not trying to deal with the TF stuff like I am some sort of perfectly perfect guru with no ego (which is insanely impossible anyway). There are too many abusers using spiritual stuff to ensnare victims promising happiness and using it to control, get money and harm others.
My journey has been one of much trauma and many of you I am sure have also endured your own karmic situations that have left you feeling unworthy, unlovable and unable to have healthy relationships. The thought of a TF can be both overwhelming and enticing, and I assure you whilst it is not MEANT to be something that makes you suffer, when we do not understand, or our ego is triggered, it can be an intensely painful experience. Unlike karmics though the Twin Flame never sets out to intentionally harm us and is often trying to protect us and them from being harmed by unhealed wounds that may lash out and cause destruction. We cycle from magnetised love attraction, karmic mirror triggers to being repelled to heal alone or in other ways before we come back and repeat until we are healed ENOUGH to heal together and grow and expand within Union.
However long you have been on this journey, whether hours, weeks, months or even decades, please, don’t give up on love, SURRENDER to it and let it take you where you need to go and be who you need to be.
Welcome to TSU and I hope I maybe of service to you on your path,
Blessings
Bex
